9 Things I Love about Oilfield Men
I know oilfield workers can’t be lumped into any one group – they come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. There is a vast range of jobs included in the “oilfield” and the workers are just as varied....
View ArticleWhy Low Gas Prices Aren’t a Good Thing
There are two types of people in this world, those who love low gas prices, and those who see the benefit of a strong energy sector and higher oil prices. As an oilfield wife, my husband’s job has been...
View ArticleHow to Survive as an Oilfield Wife
Oilfield wives come in all shapes and sizes, as do their oilfield husbands. Some work outside the home, some have kids, some are homemakers, some see their husbands every day, and others go months...
View ArticleWhat Working on the Texas/Mexico Border is Really Like
I verified that the pistol loaded with hollow points and stun gun/flashlight was still in his truck. These were the questions I asked my husband every day while he worked on the border of Texas and...
View ArticleIt Becomes Who You Are
The oilfield slow down has been rough. So many people have lost their jobs, and the ones that are still employed have lost hours or had pay cuts. It’s not an easy time to be an oilfield family. Times...
View ArticleRuby
Trigger Warning: Loss, Miscarriage “Yellow Makes Her Happy” was the first article I had some trepidation about. It was in that article I shared with you, for the first time, the various struggles my...
View ArticleWhat a Child Remembers When Dad Travels for Work
It is odd when I think back on it. I know that for a large portion of my childhood, my Dad traveled for work. He wasn’t in the oilfield like my husband, but he did have a sales job. Every week on...
View ArticleMaking Ends Meet
Well, it’s finally caught up with us. We knew it was going to happen. We’ve been feeling it coming on… my husband is getting fewer and fewer hours, leaving us with a very sizable cut in pay. We lived...
View ArticleThe Murphy’s Law of Wives Who Rock it Solo
*Sigh* – The good ole’ Murphy’s Law. No one is exempt. Especially us wives who often find ourselves flying solo by the single thread we typically hang on to. Sound familiar? Good. I’m not alone then....
View ArticleI Miss the Oilfield
I never, ever – in a million years – thought I would say these four, simple words (and mean it so much), but…I miss the oilfield. I do. I miss it so much, for so many reasons. I miss being part of...
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